Live In Mistresses
Who are the live in mistresses?
Live-in mistresses are undraftable widows. They can elect to be a live in rather than to continue to sponsor. They are assigned by the Trust to families who need a helping hand after a child is added to the family. She is supposed to help the wife run the home and take care of the children. There can also be a sexual aspect to the live-in's relationship with her male employer, if his wife cannot or will not meet his sexual needs, but it isn't mandatory.
Requirements for a mistress:
- She cannot be related to the family she's working for in any way.
- She will live with the family full-time until the youngest child turns six.
- She can quit for any reason or be fired.
- Single men without children cannot have a live-in mistress assigned to them.
Getting a Live-In
Men waiting for a new draft - with children
Men that are waiting for a new wife can employ a mistress to help raise the children and keep the household running smoothly. This employment can end with the new wifeÃ¢â‚¬â„¢s appearance, or it can continue until the youngest child enters school, depending on what the man wants.
Men married with children
A married couple must have a child under the age of six to have a full time mistress assigned to their home. If they need assistance with children over the age of six, they can hire a nanny for those hours, but she would not be a live-in mistress.
How does the process work?
Men go to the JoP building and fill out the appropriate forms. A widow that is employed as a mistress will receive a letter with the details of the family, and can choose if she wishes to accept. It is suggested that she spend a week with the family to help them all decide if the assignment is a good fit.